Monthly Archives: July 2011

A More Ethical Condom?

I recently saw the fair-trade carbon-neutral Fair Squared condoms written up on The Pleasure Project and was curious. Is this just another product to jump on the decidedly bourg-y green bandwagon where we can feel better about ourselves just by spending money on the “correct” products? Offsetting the carbon footprint of manufacturing is a good [...]

Chunky Dunk!

Come join body-positive folks in creating a body-positive space on Lake Michigan. Swimming! Fun! Fierceness! Beach is accessible. Event is free, fun, and open to the public.
The group is a fierce, fun, informative body positive group started by queers thinking how fat phobia, classism, racism, ableism, homo/transphobia, and sexism intersect and [...]

Sex on Wheels

Every summer I start imagining myself strolling through the park with a paleta cart, bringing joy to the sun-warmed people of our city… selling dildos. Seriously, wouldn’t it be neat to have a a little E2B cart? Or a revamped Airstream trailer? We could make it look just like a silver bullet!
Well, the pesky marketing [...]

Sexy Fingers

French HIV/AIDS organization, AIDES has created the most mesmerizingly horrific video to promote HIV testing ever. Its just so bizarre and off-putting that I cannot stop watching. The message is that you can do lots of sexy things with just one finger, including getting an HIV test. That’s great, I’m just not sure where scrota [...]

Virgin looking for a toy

Mistress
Someone asked today what would be a good insertable toy for a woman looking to experiment with penetration who has never had it before. Here were the top choices I came up with:
Non-Vibrating:
Billie: Small, flexible and made of 100% silicone.
Mistress: Longer and also made of 100% silicone.
Perry: A little less expensive, but still 100% [...]

American Able

I was so excited to see this body of work from photographer Holly Norris yesterday and I wanted to share it with you all. It is a series of photos that show a pro-disability take on the the American Apparel ads and our culture’s representation of sexuality and ability in general. Here is what the [...]

Strapping on for Pleasure

I recently fielded a question from a woman who was interested in strapping on a dildo for the first time and wanted to make sure she got a harness and dildo that would be as much a pleasure to wear as to receive, but was not interested in a double ended dildo. Here’s what I [...]

Butt Fun Weekend Contest!

Happy Friday/weekend! It is time for cleaning out a few more random things from my office and today we have all butt stuff that you can win just by telling your peeps about us! Here is what we have for you to win:

TOM PUTT (left) 100% silicone plug. It is 4″ x 1 ¼”and I [...]

RodeoH.. A Harness Like You Have Not Seen Before!

Check this hot new harness out! Made of cotton and spandex, the RodeoH lets you slip a dildo into your underpants!
Our tester found this quite fun and comfortable, although you will find that the wider the base on the dildo, the more secure your toy will be. Of course you can pack with this too, [...]

Male Submission Art

Today I have been drooling over Maymay’s Male Submission Art blog. Honestly, I don’t usually get all excited over erotic images of male-identified people, but the the photos  and extremely thought-provoking commentary here have got me hooked. Male Submission Art challenges dominant notions of masculinity and kink. It beautifully illustrates the truths that submission can [...]