category: ‘SexAdvice’

All About Female Orgasms

It’s funny. As much as Americans are obsessed with sex and sexuality, we are rarely given good advice (or any advice!) on how to explore our own sexual pleasure. Women in particular are implicitly told to let their male partners “give” them orgasms, leaving many women frustrated when this just doesn’t happen. It’s nobody’s fault, [...]

Masturbation and Your Health

Masturbation. It’s something many of us love to do, yet it is a word that is often only whispered about in public, if mentioned at all. No longer do we believe that we’ll grow hair on our palms or go blind from bringing ourselves to orgasmic ecstasy, but many of us still carry the shame [...]

Kegel Exercises

Did you know that there is an exercise that you can do anywhere, anytime, in front of anyone that can intensify and improve your orgasms? It’s true! You can strengthen your pubococcygeus (mercifully abbreviated to “PC”) muscles just like you strengthen any other muscle, but without coughing up gym fees!
People of all genders [...]

The G-Spot: a user’s guide

It’s pretty disconcerting that we have launched into the 21st century, and we still aren’t completely sure what a woman’s genitals look like. There’s a lot going on inside the ol’ pelvic floor, but what exactly that is, no one can really say. The most recent discovery in Australia in 2005 was that:
a) [...]

The Art of Dildo Cock-Sucking

I like to think that the art of dildo cock-sucking transcends the boundaries of gender and sexual identity–in other words, you do not need to have or desire a flesh-and-blood cock to enjoy the psychological and, yes, physical thrill of giving and receiving head! And because of this fact, we can often enjoy the pure [...]

Going Down on a Woman

I wish I could promise you, like so many magazines do, that there is a “magic trick” that will “drive her wild.” Sadly, though, there is no cunnilingual bag o’ tricks that you can reach into and pull out that surefire technique. This is not to say that I’m just going to throw you out [...]

Butt Sex for Guys

Why would I want to engage in anal play and prostate pleasuring when
my cock gets me off just fine?!
It’s Fun and Feels Good! Women and men both have the capacity to take great pleasure from anal stimulation — anything from a finger teasing the opening of an asshole, to oral and rim jobs, to the [...]

BDSM: a beginner’s guide

An interest in BDSM can be difficult to talk about with a partner, much less a complete stranger. So how about we make this easy on you? Here is a transcript of our imaginary conversation for you to peruse in the comfort of your own home!
You: I’ve always called it S & M. Is that [...]

Anal Sex: Dos and Don’ts

Lots of people of all genders and orientations enjoy anal stimulation. There are all kinds of things you can do with someone’s (or you own) butt from stimulating your ass with a vibrator during masturbation to strapping-on a dildo and penetrating your partner. There are, however, a few important dos and don’ts that you need [...]