We got a question today about how to switch up your masturbatory technique when you feel you can only orgasm under very specific circumstances, in a very specific position and using a very specific type of stimulation. It is true that vibrators can help break you out of (what I have just decided to call) [...]
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This class starts by exploring the male anatomy and our feelings about it. After a brief lesson on pleasure points we move on to instructions for what makes a stellar handjob and then techniques to give a mind-blowing blowjob–all [...]
Holy crap, you guys. You HAVE to read this article. It’s on the OKCupid blog, and it amasses all the data they’ve collected by the people using their dating service. There are graphs, people. There are graphs where you can move the toggle to change the results.
And you will find that there are some fascinating [...]
Here’s a conundrum for you: what if the efforts you’re taking to spice up your sex life are really just making things less spicy, more tedious, and utterly discouraging?
There are lots of ways this can happen, but the biggest one is focusing your energy on the wrong thing — the symptom, let’s say, instead of [...]
Here is a GREAT exercise that any of us can do, courtesy of Cory Silverberg at sexuality.about.com, with the idea being that you become more cognizant of what turns you on, thus making you more aware of your sexuality and, ideally, that of your partner.
Some, but not all of us, are aware when something turns [...]
This is really great. The Sex Positive Journalism Awards, or “Sexies” for short, exists “to give mainstream journalists encouragement and support for covering sexual topics in unsensationalistic honest fashion.” You can also check out their award criteria and their list of judges (which include such luminaries as Carol Queen, Rachel Kramer Bussel, and Debby Herbenick).
They [...]
Oh these are priceless.
Here’s one to whet your whistle, so to speak.
via Violet Blue
WASHINGTON—A new study released this week by the U.S. Bureau of Masochism has concluded that American nipples are critically under-clamped, bolstering long-held suspicions that the nation is rapidly losing interest in the thin, delectable line between pleasure and pain.
According to the study, which surveyed a wide swath of citizens who have been very, very bad, [...]
Once again, I have to invoke the awesome Dr. Petra for providing links to these amazing pamphlets put together by the Swedish Association for Sexuality Education. You can open them as PDFs, and I highly recommend reading at least the one on the hymen (or ‘vaginal corona’ as they are suggesting it be renamed! I [...]
I’ll admit it — I’m a sucker for New Years’ resolutions. Love ‘em! Can’t get enough of ‘em! Usually make wayyyy too many of them, become demoralized by mid-February, drop 99%. But this year will be different! At least that’s the hope of the new year, right? That things will be different, and better, and [...]
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