My blush neo elite 7.5 inch dildo is pretty amazing! I bought it as my first actual dildo after using dilators for vaginismus recovery. It’s tapered, squishy, and pretty smooth, so it’s a pretty mild intro to larger penetration. Inserting the first couple inches is gentle and easy, then the rest is a fun stretch if I’m up for it. My partner loves it for anal for similar reasons. We both really enjoy wearing it in a harness- it holds up really well in an o ring, has a wonderful weight to it, and feels very natural. Even though we have a lot more dildos now, this is still one of our most frequently used!